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FREE YOURSELF - COMMUNICATE - CONNECT - SOCIALIZE - SUCCEED
If You Have Difficulty
*
Presenting & Expressing Yourself
Comfortably
* Dealing Confidently With Authority Figures
Then You Need To Improve Your Social Skills!
Janet said "Yes" to all the above.
When I met her, she was anxiously avoiding meeting the firm's new marketing clients, finding excuses to be other places, doing other things.
She didn't know what to say or how to say it. She
She felt embarrassed and
inadequate She was sure her suggestions she would be
fired if her boss discovered her inability to interact effectively
But
6 months later, she knew what to say and how to say it. She knew
As a result, she was not only comfortably greeting new clients and tuning into their emotions and thinking but also confidently taking the lead in helping them structure their marketing campaigns—along with a 15% raise in salary.
Like
Janet, you can improve your people skills ... and so much more!
******************
Your Name: Your
Email:
Dr.
Signe A. Dayhoff ...
Control your fears of being negatively evaluated
if you
open your mouth ... NOW
you can communicate effectively with people anytime,
anywhere
... NOW
you can transform your
interactions into confident, enjoyable socializing. (This
may sound too good to be true ... but it is true. I know because I've been there ... and I've done it!) Why Should You Listen to Me? I'm
Signe A. Dayhoff, Ph.D., your social/people skills
mentor. As a recovered social phobic, a social psychologist, and a social
anxiety/interpersonal communications expert, I know how
you want to speak and present yourself comfortably and confidently, saying
the right things to connect with people and create relationships Interpersonal
Communication Should Not Be a Problem. Like
many of you, I froze when trying to speak with others, especially in groups. I couldn't stand up for myself. I couldn't ask for feedback on what I had done
when I needed it.
I never knew what to say to connect to others. I was unable to
handle conflict or disagreements of any kind, especially with authority figures. Because I had difficulty reading others'
emotional reactions to
me, I tended
to assume they were thinking the worst about me when they weren't.
Sound familiar? My struggle with anxiety in social situations
and interpersonal communication came before these problems were the focus they
are today.
As a result, I spent about
With patience, persistence, education, and practice I finally overcame my
communication- and self-presentation obstacles. Because I did it, you
can do
it too.
What an Indescribably Tremendous Relief That Reversal Was ... and Is! Because
I know many of you also have struggled with these
problems, I have worked with many hundreds like you as
well as professionals in the field to see what skills and
guidance you need to solve your problem. With
respect to self-presentation anxiety, I
talked with the top clinical researchers With
respect to people skills and interpersonal communication, I worked personally with nonverbal communications expert Dr. Clara
Mayo, did 10 years of extensive research in social effectiveness, and received training in emotional intelligence
(EI) from well-known
EI experts
Dr. David Caruso and Charles Wolfe.
The upshot is that over the last 28+ years I have gathered, with you in mind, the best proven tools.
Moreover,
I have developed
a wide range of effective, systematic strategies for you to achieve the social skills, interpersonal
communication strengths,
The GOOD NEWS is
... that you can create social
confidence in the process.
And
... You
don't
have to go through the deadly
slow, often-agonizing, hit-or-miss, trial-and-error process
... that I did ... to do
it!
"It's
not how smart you are but how you are smart."
(And that's "people smart!") FACT:
"People skills" means being able to
talk with anyone You
know
how to effectively use interpersonal communications When
you are people smart, you can present yourself
As Napoleon Hill stated in his book Think
and Grow Rich,
If you can conceive of and believe in your
becoming confident and competent
Just
Imagine
How That Could Change Your Life ... in as Few as 3 Months!
How?
By Discovering How To
Identify,
access, and manage your emotions and moods Listen
to understand
what people's emotions really mean Comfortably
speak out when you need or want to Express
your thoughts and feelings clearly and accurately Master
handling verbal conflicts with colleagues and bosses Condition
your emotions and thinking to automatically work toward Deep-six
fears of negative evaluation or rejection
for speaking Use
your and other's emotions to influence and effect
desired changes Identify
and build on your social skill strengths.
Using
my 5 "Rs,"
Janet
Replaced
...
Reprogrammed
her unproductive thinking, emotions, and behavior
Removed
thinking, emotional, and behavioral
obstacles
Recreated
herself to be the people-savvy social success
she
desired
Revitalized
her
personal and work relationships to achieve her
dreams.
...
And Become More Socially Effective ...
You Can Finally
Successfully Communicate
... You
... With my free You
get on-target suggestions, tips, stories, events, news, announcements, and -
Why Socially Effective
Communication Skills are Important They
help you to
“Watch
your thoughts; they become your words.
-
Hillel,
1st Century B.C. sage
Never
Forget “Fear
is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that
brings total obliteration. I will –
Frank Herbert, science fiction author
Dr.
Signe
mailto:DrSigne@MasterSocialEffectiveness.com
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