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Speak and Present Yourself Confidently Anywhere
* Is Presenting Yourself Difficult In-Person or
On the Phone?
* Do You Lack Confidence Meeting Strangers?
* Do Your People Skills Need a Makeover?
* Do You Want to Comfortably Interact With Others?
Janet said "Yes" to all the above.
When I met her, she was anxiously avoiding meeting the firm's new marketing clients, finding excuses to be other places, doing other things. She felt embarrassed and inadequate because her brain froze when she had to interact with them. She was sure her suggestions on their projects were stupid. Moreover, she feared she would be fired if her boss discovered her "poor" performance.
But 6 months later, she was not only comfortably greeting new clients but also confidently taking the lead in helping them structure
their marketing campaigns—along with a 15%
raise in salary.
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Your Name: Your
Email:
Dr.
Signe A. Dayhoff If
Long to
interact easily and comfortably at work and elsewhere ...
Can
imagine being able to effortlessly make small talk, exchange ideas, speak Yearn
to be seen as confident and competent in all you say
and do
...
Then
You ...
...
Skyrocket your ...
...
Now!
You can talk effectively with people almost anytime, anywhere
...
And transform your
life. (This
may sound too good to be true ... but it is true. I
know ... because I've been there ... and ... I've done it!) Why Should You Listen to Me? I'm
Signe A. Dayhoff, Ph.D., your master social effectiveness
mentor. As a recovered social phobic
... a psychologist ... and a people skills and communications expert, I know what you have
experienced,
and how you want to speak and present yourself without fear ... now
I
used to hide behind doors so I didn't have to answer the phone or doorbell.
When I If
I had to speak at a
meeting, I stood with my mouth open, waiting for some intelligent words
to form and spill out. But it rarely happened because my brain was frozen. When But ... sometimes ...
I was unlucky ... . I caved in to the almost-unbearable pressure of other people expecting me to respond. I knew I had to say something ... anything. And
... sad to say ... I did. It was so humiliating! At
meetings and presentations I always felt as if what I said consisted of babbling and stammering ... disjointed thoughts escaping from my mouth.
I know I spoke but all I At
those moments ... I would have given anything ... for Harry Potter's Cloak of
Invisibility. Sound familiar?
Unfortunately,
my struggle with anxiety in social situations was before the problem became the clinical and media focus it is today.
As a result, I
had to spend about 1,087 hours doing research and going through slow,
slogging, agonizing trial and error ... to see what worked. But
my patience, persistence, and practice paid off handsomely. I figured
out what I needed to do. I did it. And ... finally ... I overcame my
conversation- and self-presentation obstacles ... in my personal life and success-oriented
people skills.
What an indescribably tremendous relief that was ... and is! Because
so many others like
you have struggled with this problem, I have worked "in the trenches" with hundreds upon hundreds of
sufferers, with business people in their workplaces and professionals in all areas of endeavor. I have also
talked with the top clinical researchers in the field, and tapped into their experiences,
expertise, and findings. (Many
of them were kind enough to endorse my social anxiety book too as a result.) The upshot is that over the last
27
And
... the GOOD NEWS is
..., like Janet, you don't
have to go through the deadly slow, Just
Imagine
Being Able To
Speak effectively with
anyone about anything
Use
solid people skills to help you reach your work goals
Present
the image you want to get your message across
Interact
with your boss or supervisor comfortably like a peer
Develop
satisfying customer relationships
Promote
yourself in a way that is rewarding and gives meaning and
Just
Imagine
How That Could Change Your Life ... in as Few as 3 Months!
FACT:
To
do this you have to eliminate
the obstacles
to presenting yourself
and
replace them with
As Napoleon Hill stated in his book Think
and Grow Rich, "What the mind can
If you can conceive of and believe in your
becoming confident and competent
How?
You
Do It By Discovering How To
Create
high-octane confidence in all you do Present
your
ideas effectively
so you're valued for your contribution Create
a favorable image that commands respect Comfortably
speak out to create positive visibility Condition
your emotions and thinking to automatically work toward Deep-six
fears of negative evaluation, failure,
being at risk, or rejection for speaking Recharge
your motivation for focused action Master
handling verbal conflicts with colleagues and bosses Manage your stress
to
eliminate communication procrastination Identify
and build on your
Commit yourself to success-oriented
interpersonal goals
because you
Using
the 5 "Rs,"
Janet
Replaced
...
Reprogrammed
her unproductive thinking, emotions, and behavior
Removed
thinking, emotional, and behavioral
obstacles
Recreated
herself for the success and fulfillment
she
desired and deserved
Revitalized
her
personal and work lives to achieve her
dreams.
...
And Become More Socially Effective ...
Do
You Want to Finally Break Free? You
Owe
It to Yourself to Do It ...
... With my free weekly e-zine, the "Master Social Effectiveness—Speak Without You
get on-target suggestions, tips, stories, events, news, announcements, and - Master people skills
Dr.
Signe
mailto:DrSigne@MasterSocialEffectiveness.com
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