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Speak and Present Yourself Confidently Anywhere
Do You
Have Difficulty
*
Expressing Your
Thoughts and Feelings Clearly and Easily?
* Speaking Up for Yourself and Asking for
What You Want?
* Comfortably Handling Conflict?
Janet said "Yes" to all the above.
When I met her, she was anxiously avoiding meeting the firm's new marketing clients, finding excuses to be other places, doing other things.
She didn't know what to say or how to say it. She
She felt embarrassed and
inadequate She was sure her suggestions she would be
fired if her boss discovered her inability to interact effectively
But
6 months later, she knew what to say and how to say it. She knew
As a result, she was not only comfortably greeting new clients and tuning into their emotions and thinking but also confidently taking the lead in helping them structure
their marketing campaigns—along with a 15%
raise in salary.
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Your Name: Your
Email:
Dr.
Signe A. Dayhoff If
Long to
interact with others comfortably at work and elsewhere ...
Desire
to effortlessly speak up for yourself, make small talk, or give
Yearn to be able to
read and understand others' emotions ...
Wish
to know and manage your own emotions to communicate better ...
Want
to tap others' emotions to influence their thinking
& acting ... Imagine
creating solid and productive relationships ...
...
See how emotions affect actions and can be managed effectively
... Now!
You can verbally communicate effectively with people almost anytime, (This
may sound too good to be true ... but it is true. Why Should You Listen to Me? I'm
Signe A. Dayhoff, Ph.D., your master social effectiveness
mentor. As a recovered social phobic
... a social psychologist ... and a people skills and interpersonal communications expert, I know how
it is to want to speak and present yourself comfortably and confidently, saying
the right things to connect with people.
I
couldn't stand up for myself. I couldn't ask for feedback on what I had done
when I needed it. I never knew what to say to connect to others. I was unable to
handle conflict or disagreements of any kind, especially with authority figures. Because I had difficulty reading others'
emotional reactions to
me, I tended
to assume they were thinking the worst about me.
Sound familiar? My struggle with anxiety in social situations
and interpersonal communication came before these problems were the focus they
are today.
As a result, I spent about 1,087 hours doing research to figure out what I
needed to do to reverse my situation.
With patience, persistence, education, and practice I finally overcame my
communication- and self-presentation obstacles.
What an indescribably tremendous relief that reversal was ... and is! Because
I know many of you also have struggled with these
problems, I have worked with many hundreds of those like
you, and professionals in the field, to see what skills and
guidance you need to solve your problem. With
respect to self-presentation anxiety, I
talked with the top clinical researchers in the field and tapped into their experiences,
expertise, and findings. (Many
of them were kind enough to endorse my social anxiety book as a result.) With
respect to interpersonal communication and people skills, I worked personally with nonverbal communications expert Dr. Clara
Mayo, did 10 years of extensive research in social effectiveness, and received training in emotional intelligence from well-known
experts
Dr. David Caruso and Charles Wolfe.
The upshot is that over the last
27+ years I have gathered the best proven tools and developed
a wide range of effective, systematic interpersonal
communication and social effectiveness strategies that can help you too
...
And
... the GOOD NEWS is
..., like Janet, you don't
have to go through the deadly slow, "It's
not how smart you are but how you are smart."
(And that's "people smart!") FACT:
It's
no longer a matter of just having technical skills To
As Napoleon Hill stated in his book Think
and Grow Rich,
If you can conceive of and believe in your
becoming confident and competent
Just
Imagine
How That Could Change Your Life ... in as Few as 3 Months!
How?
By Discovering How To
Identify,
access, and manage your emotions and moods Listen
to understand
what people's emotions really mean Comfortably
speak out when you need or want to Express
your thoughts and feelings clearly and accurately Master
handling verbal conflicts with colleagues and bosses Condition
your emotions and thinking to automatically work toward Deep-six
fears of negative evaluation or rejection
for speaking Use
your and other's emotions to influence and effect
desired changes Identify
and build on your verbal communication strengths.
Using
the 5 "Rs,"
Janet
Replaced
...
Reprogrammed
her unproductive thinking, emotions, and behavior
Removed
thinking, emotional, and behavioral
obstacles
Recreated
herself to be the people-savvy social success
she
desired
Revitalized
her
personal and work relationships to achieve her
dreams.
...
And Become More Socially Effective ...
Do
You Want to You
Owe
It to Yourself to Do It ...
... With my free weekly e-zine, the "Master Social Effectiveness—Speak Without You
get on-target suggestions, tips, stories, events, news, announcements, and
- Master people skills,
emotional intelligence, and interpersonal communication
Dr.
Signe
mailto:DrSigne@MasterSocialEffectiveness.com
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